His Needs Her Needs
Jan
25
Written by:
25/01/2012
TITLE : His Needs – Her Needs
AUTHOR : Willard F. Harley Jnr.
CATEGORY : Marriage and Relationships
RECOMMENDED FOR : Improving any marriage – helping save a troubled marriage
MAIN THEME : How to identify and meet the needs of your spouse
KEY POINTS :
1 - Men and women have similar needs, but their priorities are different
2 – Identifying the 10 common needs of men and women
3 –How to build a relationship that sustains romance, increases intimacy & deepens awareness by meeting the needs of your spouse
COMMENTS/SUMMARY –
PATTI : Highly Recommended for all married couples, including those who are happy where their marriage is at, and those not happy with their marriage and wish to change things. The success or failure of a marriage depends on the ability of both partners to identify and meet the needs of their spouse.
We all have specific needs in marriage.
Men’s and women’s needs are different.
We must understand the needs of our spouse and what we can do to meet those needs.
Whether we realise it or not, a successful & fulfilling marriage is measured by how well we meet the needs of our spouse.
Marriage breakdown usually occurs because needs are not being met.
This book is an invaluable tool & and a must read for every couple. It teaches us how to identify the needs of our spouse & also how to do the specific actions necessary to meet those needs.
It also gives a way back for those marriages that have ended in an affair because one spouse looked outside the marriage to have his/her needs met.
JOHN: This book has been around for a few years, but it is one of my top 3 in the “must read” category for all couples who are either married or getting married in the near future. I found it an invaluable source to help me clearly identify my needs and confidently express them to my wife.
Probably more importantly, it helped me to ask the right questions of my wife. This helped me to clearly identify my wife’s needs and get the feedback necessary to know whether or not I was “hitting the mark”.
I owe a lot of the success of my marriage to the application of the great information in this book. A Highly Recommended read.